Monthly Archives: May 2014

Weekly Craft Update – May 26, 2014

As I predicted, LOTS of progress this week. The half cross stitches have gone a lot faster this week as I am doing a lot of filling in, so more matching and filling and less counting. Not to mention, with two days of rehearsals for DS’s dance production coming up later this week, there has been a lot of time to sit and stitch while he dances (and “plays” with some of his favorite people, the professional dancers he’s known since he was very young).

Her skirt is nearly done, and so now it’s mostly fine details and soon the background. DH says it looks creepy because her eye isn’t done yet, so I will have to get that done soon as well lol.

Onto the picture! (Oh and excuse my tape on the edge lol)



Weekly Craft Update – May 19, 2014

Incredibly busy weekend this past weekend as DS had dance recitals all weekend long. He was amazing and had great progress this year. This week kicks of rehearsals for his next production. 🙂 never a dull moment!

I did have some time during this week to make more progress in the skirt though, and I hope to make a lot more as most of this week will see me sitting through rehearsal times.

I am one row away from the bottom edge though, so it’s size is really starting to come together. Saying it’s 14 inches by 14 inches (36cm by 36cm for my UK and Euro readers) sounds great, but doesn’t seem that big, until I really see how many stitches are in that space lol and since every single one is stitched, I get a little overwhelmed by the sheer vastness of blank cloth still. I am determined though, and enjoying seeing the progress. Whenever I do feel overwhelmed, I go back to the pictures I’ve taken and see how far I’ve come and I feel better.

On to the important part… This week’s picture!


Weekly Craft Update – May 12, 2014

Another busy week for me, but a week that had a lot of waiting time. DS had testing for school, and then yesterday was Mother’s Day here in the States, so I took the day to watch some Netflix and stitch between my yummy meals and visit with my MIL.

It is finally to the point where I had to move it on the scroll frame! LOL I never thought I’d finally get there. I haven’t quite reached the top or bottom edge, but I’m creeping closer. And so for the picture, it looks a little odd because I had to loosen it from the bars to get the whole thing in the picture.

Here’s the picture for this week!


I Just Don’t Get…


Before I get to showing off the progress on the cross stitch this week, I had to kind of get this out of my brain.

This post has literally been on my mind for a couple weeks now. For various reasons.

The title (I just don’t get people) is something I actually say frequently. Because, truly, I just don’t “get” (or understand if my vernacular is too Southern American for some of you) people. Not saying everyone, not saying even certain people all the time, but there is usually at least once a day, that at some point I am going to look at something on Facebook, TV, or out in the “real world” and say, at least to myself, but usually DH as well, that I JUST don’t GET people.

If you’re wondering, it’s because I just don’t get WHY some people do certain things, or how someone can be so idiotic and still remember to breathe, or why people get so obsessed with certain things/people/celebrities/fads/etc, or especially in the world of Facebook, why people think it’s okay to be downright, MEAN, rude, etc.

Yes, I am one of those logical, less emotional than most, introverted, “weird” people. No, I don’t have pointy ears, so no, I am not Vulcan. At least as far as I know I’m not.

Lately though, it just seems that amongst my groups of people I interact with in various ways, be it through Facebook, other online things, out in public, first hand accounts I hear from others, etc, that one of the biggest problems out in the world to day is a lack of manners, coupled with a lack of common sense.

Okay, so, mostly I see this on Facebook. Which is why I keep my friend’s list pared down to people I actually am either, related to, interact with (or have interacted with in the recent past) some what regularly, or people that I know because our children interact regularly. Some I am much closer to than others, and that’s not good or bad either way, just the way life is. I don’t like having hundreds of friends on Facebook, for several reasons, one is my privacy and the privacy of my children, but also, there is just no way, in any realm of existence I have the ability, energy, or need to keep up with 900+ people, most of which I might have met once in my life, or went to high school with nearly 20 years ago. Would I like to possibly know some of them better? Of course, but there are factors that cause issues with that as well. Time, schedules, the fact that I don’t like just sitting in front of my computer all day (did that for a while, it’s bad for the waist line), the issues I have with long phone conversations (I’d much rather text lol), the fact that I am rather introverted and so idle conversation is difficult for me, as well as, I don’t follow most celebrities, movies, etc, and have rather odd tastes in music, books and movies/TV.

Anyway, I digress.

What I don’t understand, is why people find it necessary to do things like “look I’m obsessed with this particular celebrity, Join ME!” (aka let me invite you to every single page I come across, and share EVERY picture/video/status so it floods your timeline). And yes, I’m aware I can block them from being on my timeline, but then I might miss it if something important is actually said. Or, how about the statuses (gee thanks Facebook for letting people be tagged in these too, as if pictures weren’t enough) that call out a particular person and their behavior for the whole world to see. *facedesk* Really people? Dirty laundry goes in the washer, not on Facebook. Or, “this is my political/religious viewpoint on XYZ, and if you don’t agree you are WRONG and STUPID!!”, all of this is usually one, only said to get people talking, and two really horrific if you start reading the comments. Like, evil, mean, horrible things said about each other, none of which I can guarantee would be said if you were sitting across the table from them or down the bar. Not for most people anyway.

Now before I get bashed even more. Yes, I am aware of people having the right to say what they want to say, express opinions on all types of subject matters and be obsessed with whomever they please (as long as it’s not stalking and/or potentially dangerous). Yes, I do realize that they are bringing whatever is said to them on themselves, etc. But. Seriously people? If it was real life, would you be shoving these pictures in peoples faces? Would you be going up to random people you don’t know and saying “well, so and so did XYZ?” Would you really start screaming foul language and calling people names JUST because their beliefs don’t fall into line with your own? I REALLY doubt it. Most of you at least, would never consider it.

The age of the internet, which I am of the generation that has watched it start with crazy annoying loud modems and BBS systems, to this insanely HUGE amount of information at my fingertips, 24/7 where ever I am. In just over 20 years, it has moved from network TV and the newspaper to being our biggest source of news, to now, where a lot of your headlines can be found trending on your Facebook homepage.

What I want people to think about though, is something I was raised with. If you don’t want it on the front page of the newspaper for everyone to see, don’t do it. And now, it’s, if you don’t want the whole WORLD to see it, in the blink of an eye, don’t do it. Digital foot prints are out there, and there to stay. If you don’t want people to think you’re an @$$h0le then don’t act like one online. Stop hiding behind the screen and act JUST like you would in public, online. And for the sake of everyone who’s path you might cross in life, STOP… THINK… use some common sense and stop reacting like the whole world is after you or that everything said is a personal attack. Have a problem with someone? TALK. Don’t like what someone posts on Facebook? Tell them, hide them, or unfriend them. Easy as that.

Not quite sure if this post took the direction that I originally intended but I hope you all get my idea. Stop, think, smile, truly consider if your words and actions are truly benefiting anyone besides you and your own personal agenda.

Weekly Craft Update – May 7, 2014

A couple days late this week. I haven’t been home much, and this was a very long, stressful weekend, followed by a crazy busy week.

I have been able to work some though, and so I had to take a couple minutes to show you all the progress. Still mostly working on the skirt, but it’s slowly getting there. I at least have edge to edge on the horizontal lol, which does give you a bit of an idea about the size of this one.

Anyway, on to the good part, the picture!


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